Waiting

Waiting is a good thing only if something is worth
waiting for.

How will you know if it's worth it? Gut feel.

What if you don't trust your gut? Pray. You will be
enlightened. Trust me.

Is it wrong to expect while waiting? It's not wrong,
but it will increase your chances of heartbreak and
disappointment if things don't work out in the end.

Is it good to expect while waiting? It is better to
HOPE.

What's the difference between hoping and expecting?
HOPING means you're open to either side of the coin
landing though you're more inclined to believe that
things will turn out well. EXPECTING means you're
thinking single-track...which won't do you much good
at all.

What's the difference between waiting and expecting?
EXPECTING is waiting for something TO DEFINITELY
HAPPEN. WAITING is staying where you are, but not
necessarily expecting something to happen definitely.

Do you need assurance from someone you're waiting for
while you're waiting? Ideally, yes. But realistically,
do you really want assurance from this person? It's so
easy to just point at something and make that the
reason why you're waiting ("Because she said..."
"Because he told me that..."). With WAITING, all you
really can rely on are 3 things: your gut feel, your
heart and mind. Just YOURSELF, not anyone else.

So should you wait? What does your gut say? How does
your heart feel? What does your mind think? If they're
saying different things, keep asking yourself these 3
questions (and pray!) until you ge t a solid answer.
THEN you'll know if he or she is worth waiting for...